Orgasm: A Distant Dream? (Part 2)

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Continued from “Orgasm: A Distant Dream? (Part 1)


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In Part 2 of the topic Orgasm: A Distant Dream? we will further dive into the unchartered water called Orgasm.

Let’s dive into the topic, without wasting any further time.

The need of the Hour

We all feel the thunders of taboo, whenever we hear the topic related to sex and orgasm.

But, do we agree that orgasm is the unexplored area for women?

It is important that men treat women as their partners and not possessions.

Talk about your needs and wants.

After all, he is your life partner and supposed to be a Dream Gentleman.

Sex is an important part of any marriage and needs to be given huge importance.

It is important that you and your partner, see eye to eye about sex.

You should talk openly, about what you like during sex and guide him to stimulate your erogenous zones.

Once you get talking, try exchanging fantasies.


If necessary go to a marriage counselor or sexologist if you have an issue.

Trying to do so, may actually save your marriage.

There is no shame in asking for the right to enjoy your body during sex.

Be guilt-free and ask for what you want.

Need a man to close the deal?

Even after all your trials, if you are unable to reach orgasm with your partner, do what any smart lady will do.

It is very important that you learn to pleasure yourself before you expect the favor of your partner. Your body is best known to you.

Some like circular motions on the clitoris, some like fingering the outer lips of the vagina, while others may like a vibrator.

A study shows that 92% of women come when you use a vibrator within 3-4 minutes.

Masturbation should be seen as a healthy alternative or even as a stimulant while having sex with your partner.


There is nothing more arousing than watching a woman pleasure herself, is the verdict of most men.

Learn how your body finds release and does not rely only on your partner.

Type of Sex Toys. There are many types of sex toys available in the market and also online. The list of toys that aid female orgasms are large.

Dildo and vibrators built to stimulate your clitoris and G-spot are available in a variety of shapes, sizes, and colours.

Look for the one that suits you best.

Most women come through clitoral stimulation, so vibrators work the best.

There is a sense of freedom when you take matters in your own hands. There is no dependence or guilt in asking a partner to pleasure you.

Choose the toy that suits you best, or simply use your fingers and a good lubricant to play, explore and reach orgasm.

A real-life incident

A woman has launched a scathing attack against a sex toy company after a battery in her brand new vibrator exploded, hit the ceiling and then scorched her jumper.

She had bought the Buzz Tongue Finger vibrator from an online retailer ‘’ for £4, reduced from £12, but claims, when she picked it up, the battery pack flew out with such force it hit the ceiling leaving a black mark.

Moral of the story. Don’t try to save money by purchasing sex toys on sale or discounted prices.

Buy branded products that come with the guarantee.

Very few women can orgasm during penetrative sex as the vagina is incapable of producing an orgasm.

So, rub your clitoris to give yourself the ultimate pleasure.

If your man is also included in the fun, he gets an invaluable lesson in pleasing you.

You are in charge and the only one who is responsible for your own physical and mental well-being.

Health issues for missing Orgasm

Orgasms keep you healthy.

There is a flow of hormones, that keep you in good health.

Serotonin is released during orgasm. This is also called the happiness hormone.

The general health of the woman is good.

A happy sex life keeps the mood happy and irritability is a thing of the past.

Although it sounds farfetched, it is true that a lack of orgasms may cause chronic stress.

Emotional ImpactWomen who cannot reach orgasm during sex are often unconfident about their looks.

They may suffer from low self-esteem and poor body image syndrome.

They, in turn, are prey to eating disorders and other mental health issues.

They feel unloved and lonely and can often be severely depressed.

This may lead to binge eating and obesity, leading to Hyper Tension or Diabetes.

You tend to eat so as to compensate for the release of serotonin only when you experience orgasm.


Diseases like hypertension and diabetes strike when stress levels are high.

Migraine and other types of tension headaches may also be evident in females who have no or very few orgasms.

Lack of orgasms may, in the long run, make you sick, rob you of joy and may even lead to depression.

Why Orgasm is Important?

Sex is supposed to relax you.

It is not a physical chore to get over with.

It needs active participation from both partners.

It is not necessary that you will orgasm every time you have sex, but that should be an aberration, not a norm.

Both partners need sexual release.

Find your Mojo and stave off these issues and Death!

Have more pleasurable sex.

Skin and hair glow when the hormones secreted when orgasms happen are secreted.

It is not a myth that a woman well-loved is noticeable.


Good sex with real orgasms keeps you young and healthy.

Your good mood keeps the marriage strong and the home happy.

Recommended Solutions

Social Change. Society at large and parents in particular need to be open about sex. It should not be a taboo word.

There are ancient texts in the Hindu mythology and folklore that glorify sex. Nothing is unnatural or dirty about sex if there is a consensus.

Sex Education. This should be communicated to each child by parents and teachers. Sex education is extremely important.

Touch Lessons. Teach the child about good touch and bad touch.

Once she grows older, she should come to terms with her burgeoning body.

It is important that the parents are open with children about sex education. Or else the teenager may be tempted to experiment and ultimately face dire consequences.

Education and awareness of good sexual habits is the crux of the matter.

The schools should offer sex education and make children aware of the consequences of unsafe sex.

The child who is armed with knowledge is also armed with prudence.

Parental Guidance. If the teenager is able to communicate with parents openly, the issues that prevail in early youth will impact her less.

She will always have a sympathetic ear and good advice to keep her safe and happy.

Understanding that sex and orgasms are natural phenomena and she is entitled to enjoy them at the appropriate age and time, with the right partner goes a long way to keep women happy and sated.

Choose education over prejudice and awareness over confusion.

Sex is a natural drive and should be enjoyed to the full.

Orgasms are a part of the woman’s well-being and she should not be denied the pleasure.

Teach your daughter, that it is not bad to seek pleasure and your sons not to be selfish with their partners.

Teach them the value of good and enduring relationships.

There is an old adage, marry in haste and repent in leisure. It is very true even today.

Marriage. Both boys and girls should not rush into marriage, without ascertaining the relationship is stable and loving. Never be pushed into marriage by your parents.

The decision to get married and be together should be a mutual one, without any pressure from both sides.

Parents should also comprehend that they have raised educated and strong children who know their minds.

They should carry out a few mandatory background checks, to ensure that their child has not lost their heart to an unscrupulous person out to take advantage of her or him.

After this is done, the parents should leave the decision to the young adults themselves.

Open-minded and understanding parents let the child have the freedom to choose their life partner.

The pressure to marry may create unnecessary haste and lead to wrong choices and lifelong pain.

Arranged Marriage. It is advisable that if you have had no chance to know your partner before your marriage, attempt to create a friendship, before initiating a sexual relationship.

This will help, when you try cementing the relationship into parenthood.


Most married couples turn into single-minded parents and forget about the relationship that brought them together in the first place, that of lovers and spouses.

The issue has been elaborately explained in Sex with a Stranger? Arrange Marriage! (Part 1 and Part 2).

Spouse’s Open Talk. Lack of pleasurable sex (read orgasms and fulfillment) fights and irritable outbursts.

These can be caused by the background of sexual tension that pervades the relationship.

This can be only be relieved if the couple decides to talk openly on the subject and resolve matters.

It is a well-known fact that couples who are happy in bed, are also reasonably happy outside of it.

Many problems can find solutions through simple discussion.

Talking openly about your needs and wants, sexual fantasies and pleasures can resolve any kind of issues.

There should be no shame in sharing your thoughts with your partner.

Explore New Ways. There are many ways that you can bring back the zing to your marriage.

1. Foreplay is the most important part of having sex.

Spend time exploring each other’s bodies and enjoy the path without hurrying into penetrative sex.

2. Talk dirty. This turns on many women, as she sees the act as a declaration that the man desires her. Feeling desire for her own self is the strongest mood enhancer.

3. Use a sex toy like a vibrator to stimulate the clitoris.

4. Have fun, try new positions and new places to have sex.

5. Be open about what pleasures you and encourage your partner to indulge in your wildest fantasies.

6. Most importantly intimacy of the mind, is what brings out the most powerful orgasms in women.


Seek Help – Counselling. You may look to read on the subject, talk to friends who are empathetic or even visit a sexologist or counselor.

Keep Talking. The fact is that problems happen when communication does not happen.

Listen to your spouse, she may be complaining about small things that hide a big pain.

Loneliness can drive a couple to despair.

Emotional intimacy demands that the couple should talk, go for date nights and take vacations together and so on.

Family Planning. It is good to plan your baby according to your wishes.

After all, you are the ones who have to provide for her and look after her.

Enjoy each other, before you commit to parenthood.

It is a beautiful emotion, but it does bind and change you for life.

Parenting Help. Take the help of your extended family.

Parents, siblings, and friends with children may be happy to help you find some “we” time.

Create date nights, surprise each other and relegate the little munchkin to her own bed.


Your relationship should remain strong and the sex should slowly become important again, as that is the bond that will create the basis of an even stronger spousal relationship.

You will be able to face fears together and see dreams for your future in tandem.

Next Child? Ideally, there should be a gap of 3-5 years between children.

This helps in giving parents time to recover from the travails of caring for a new baby.

The bond can regain its warmth and sex lives can come back to normal.

Final Words

Nature has endowed us with the ability to gain pleasure from sex and no woman should be denied her share.

Sex leads to procreation but is not limited to that function only.

Revel in your womanhood and take pleasure in yourself and your man!

Orgasms are a woman’s right and you must work towards achieving one.

Talk to your partner about it.

It will not only make your marriage stronger, but it will also maintain intimacy between you.

So go ahead and spice up your relationship with great sex and multiple orgasms.

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